I find myself reading and searching and praying for answers and guidance and wondering why I always seem to get it wrong. How do I always fall for the same type of men. Some many people out there now seem to want to control and manipulate you. Who has time for that? I am a single parent that just wants to be happy too. Between chaos with my kid and family, I feel most people can definitely relate to.   So I have to wonder, do people truly have it together or is it just going through the motions of it. If you do let the rest of us in on the secret.